Date with Self Confidence
It does not matter whom you date as long as you do so with confidence. It has the power to mesmerize your date, considerably increasing the chances for taking things further.
Why is it Important?
Confidence is as desirable in women as in men. A confident person has a unique sex appeal. Even if you are a simple guy meeting a fashionable diva, you can still break the ice by being confident in your approach.
No one likes a dull, unconfident person. Having confidence reflects picture of an individual who is capable of decision making, is responsible and has the ability handle any type of situation.
Everyone wants a partner they can rely upon. If you appear confident, your chances are high to be in the “wanted” list.
Let us understand the role of confidence in dating.
Dress your Best
Stick to the dressing style that you are most comfortable in. There is no need to wear a short dress if you feel awkward in flaunting your body. Likewise, unless it is a candle light dinner in an exquisite restaurant, the guy does not need to wear formals.
Confirm the dating venue with your date and dress your best, accordingly. If he/she wants it to remain a surprise then ask them what cloths you should be wearing.
No matter what be the reason, do not try and pretend to be someone else than what you are. Remain yourself. This includes speaking in a language that you are comfortable in and sticking to your likes and dislikes.
The only way to be yourself is to accept your body and your own personality the way it is. There is always a room for self development but date is not the time to bring in any type of dramatic change.
Stick to your Borderline
When you stick to your boundaries, you are assuring yourself not to take any risks. Most of the people lose confidence during the date because they do not know what to do in case the date asks them to do something to go somewhere about which they are unsure.
Preparation for Unpredictability
Things may not go as planned and the best way to handle the situation is through self confidence. Remain mentally prepared for everything. If you try to take control of everything, things may become boring. Simply go with the flow. Be ready for experimentation.
This ability to adapt will only come if you are confident.
Leave the Past Behind
Let go of your past and promise yourself to start afresh. Clinging onto an ex who is not ready to clear things out will only bring down your self esteem. Move on and do not bring on the topic in front of your date. If he/she brings it on then simply say that it is a thing of the past.
Take it Easy
Lastly, you need to remain calm about the date. Think of it as spending 2 to 3 hours with a new person. Remember, that there is no one that you need to impress. Even if things don`t turn up to be in your favor, it has nothing to do with your life. Do not allow a bad date to ruin your mood.
There are many people in this world who have had many unsuccessful dates before they could meet the right person. Had they lost their confidence, they would never have been able to date again, and so, probably would have ended without a partner. Hence, always remain optimistic and be confident.