Overcome self doubt and nurture self pride
Most of us suffer from low self esteem. The feeling of ‘can’t do’ rules our mind in such a way that we become unable to think beyond it. Every human being has taken birth with enormous will power and certain unique potential which determine his success. Self esteem refers to our intelligence which is a dynamic power, a motivation for success which employs self awareness, knowledge, experience and self pride. But our self pride is often affected by negative forces like fear and depression, and we replace self pride with self doubt. Self doubt is the voice of our inner soul which becomes a little skeptical about our abilities in performing a particular job.
Apparently confident people may even suffer from self doubt when he plans to try something new in their lives. The only way to conquer self doubt is to replace it by self pride. We have to control the voice of our inner soul when so ever it tries to subdue us. Many may consider self pride as a negative trait which makes us over ambitious and over confident about life. However, self pride can be related with the goodness that we have in ourselves and the idea that we possess about our own-selves.
Self pride is the ability to be contented with whatever potentials and capabilities we have. Self pride in can also be termed as self esteem which enables us to practice our dreams and achieve success. High self esteem requires fine tuning of self confidence and satisfaction which is generally achieved through continuous experience of individual success. Self pride is a faith, a tool to be triumphant over any given challenge and the confidence to come out as a winner.
There are numerous occasions in life when we face tough challenges and unfavorable circumstances which we have to deal with under huge mental stress. Low self esteem can be an obstacle to our career. When we start thinking in a negative way, we lose out on self pride and find ourselves in a deep mental agony
Look for external support: Inner motivation is not always enough to win over our fears and doubts. Hence, we need to share our thoughts and fears with people who are full of life and carry a positive attitude.
Jot down the reasons: The best way to avoid fear is to write down the reasons which make us doubt our own-selves. Scribbling down the situations which gives birth to fear within us can be helpful.
Appreciate small achievement: Life is a continuous growth, it is an experience; and whatever we gain in the journey of life due to our hard work needs to be recognized and appreciated on a regular basis so that no evil attitude gets space to tap into our life.
Improve daily: Success is an ongoing process where growth cannot be stagnant. Therefore, we have to learn and practice something new every day in order to keep us growing. Personal growth gives inner strength to overcome self doubt and enjoy self confidence.
We can follow these steps to enrich our self esteem. Practice and dedication is necessary to understand the real meaning of life and thereby celebrate the same.